Personal development & self growth vlogs
We aim to provide a holistic approach to coaching and well-being,
helping you find the right approach that works for you.
Check out our vlogs below to find a series of self-help tips and actionable exercises
you can incorporate into your life and daily activities to see growth and development, both personally and professionally.
You can use these tips in combination with our group or personal sessions for a more holistic approach.
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The video focuses on how visualization can make achieving goals more attainable by helping you embody the mindset and behaviours needed for success.
It begins with the example of running a marathon. Even if you aren’t currently a runner, you can start by imagining yourself as someone who is. Six months before the event, you might picture yourself as a person who eats healthily, goes to bed early, wakes up energized, signs up for training sessions, and gradually builds stamina by walking and then running shorter distances.
This process of visualization is powerful because it does more than create a mental image; it builds self-confidence. By seeing yourself already living the habits and behaviours of someone who has achieved the goal, you start believing it’s possible for you too.
Ultimately, goal-setting isn’t just about writing down what you want. It’s about visualizing the version of yourself who already lives that reality and then taking small, intentional steps to bridge the gap between where you are now and where you want to be.
Self-confidence is a gradual process, but it’s one of the most important qualities we can develop for our personal lives, careers, and goals. It doesn’t appear overnight; it’s something we need to nurture patiently with consistent effort.
The video shares several practical ways to build confidence day by day. The first is practicing positive self-talk. The way we speak to ourselves directly shapes our mindset, so filling our thoughts with encouraging and supportive words makes a huge difference. Another is exercising regularly, as movement releases endorphins (the “happy hormones”) which not only improve our mood but also give us a natural boost of energy and motivation.
Self-care also plays a crucial role. Taking time for skincare, journaling, or other routines that help you reflect can increase your sense of empowerment and emotional balance. Celebrating small successes is equally powerful; acknowledging even tiny wins keeps you motivated and strengthens your confidence as you move forward.
Surrounding yourself with positive, uplifting people is another key step. The energy of those around you matters: encouraging words, mutual support, and an optimistic environment can help you see your own potential more clearly. Finally, taking on new challenges (whether that’s a new project, hobby, or meeting new people) helps you push past your comfort zone. Every time you try something new and reflect on how it went, your confidence grows stronger.
In short, self-confidence comes from small, intentional steps: speaking kindly to yourself, moving your body, caring for your well-being, celebrating wins, surrounding yourself with positivity, and daring to try new things. Over time, these practices help you feel more capable, empowered, and ready to take on life with greater belief in yourself.
We all go through times when life feels flat: when nothing excites us or seems interesting enough to get us moving. In those moments, finding motivation is less about waiting for inspiration and more about taking small, intentional steps to shift your energy.
One of the simplest ways is to change things up. Start with your mornings: try adding a short routine like five to ten minutes of dancing, walking, or anything that uplifts you. The way you begin your day sets the tone for everything that follows.
It also helps to reconnect with what truly matters. Write down your passions and values, then reflect on how much they appear in your daily life. If they don’t, look for ways to bring them back in. Another important step is to reward yourself, even with something small like a scented candle or a coffee treat. Self-kindness goes a long way in keeping your energy up.
Growth is another key driver of motivation. Pick up a new book or explore ideas that stretch your perspective. Learning fuels curiosity, and curiosity brings momentum. Finally, challenge yourself by stepping outside your comfort zone. Whether it’s meeting new people, trying a new hobby, or saying yes to something that scares you, these little pushes help you grow stronger and more motivated.
Motivation isn’t about waiting for the right moment; it’s about creating it. By changing your routine, aligning with your values, rewarding yourself, feeding your growth, and taking on new challenges, you can reignite excitement and energy in your life.
Personal well-being is something we all value, but it can be easy to forget how much influence it has on our daily lives. The video highlights six straightforward practices that anyone can adopt to start living better today.
The first is to remember that everything is temporary. Anxiety, struggle, uncertainty, and pain may feel heavy in the moment, but they will pass. The second step is to forgive yourself for past actions. You’re not the same person you once were, and holding on to old guilt only clutters your mind and heart.
Third, keep in mind that everything happens for a reason. And if it doesn’t, it simply wasn’t meant for you; you’re still on your own path. The fourth practice is to stop worrying about what others think. People aren’t scrutinizing you as much as you believe, and letting go of that fear frees you to be your authentic self.
Fifth, give yourself permission to feel good and embrace positive thinking. Joy isn’t something to feel guilty about. When you allow yourself to experience moments of ease and beauty, you can use that positivity to your advantage. Finally, don’t underestimate your own power. You are far more capable than you realize.
Taken together, these six steps are simple but powerful tools to strengthen your well-being, encourage self-compassion, and remind you of your inner strength.
Work takes up a huge portion of our lives (about a third of it) so it’s essential that we feel motivated and excited about what we do each day. When that spark starts to fade, it may be a signal that it’s time to pause and re-evaluate.
There are a few common signs that indicate you might need a change. The first is a lack of excitement: if you no longer feel any enthusiasm for your work, that’s a red flag. Another is constant distraction; daydreaming or finding it hard to focus can be a symptom of deeper disengagement. You might also notice that you’ve stopped feeling optimistic about the future, or that you dread even the simplest work-related tasks, leaving you feeling overwhelmed.
A further sign is the loss of creativity. If everything starts to feel pointless and uninspired, it may be that your work no longer challenges you in the right ways. Finally, if you no longer feel that your role connects to your values and passions, it’s worth considering whether your current path is still the right fit.
If you’re experiencing one or more of these signals, it may be the right moment to step back and think about what really excites you. Re-evaluating your work could open the door to opportunities that better align with your career goals, your personal growth, and the kind of future you want to build.